Sunday, December 14, 2008

Innocent Period



I always consider the importance of friends. Some words saying it’s delightful to have friends from different lands. Moreover, friends contribute a big power in our life to build our character and morals. I find friends around us like an encyclopedia pour much fresh energy into our lives, educate us and reflect us whether or not be satisfy of the status quo. However, the precondition of it is we should possess independent and positive attitude of life, because the main actor of life is ourselves, not others. We only can reflect something from the appearance by having independent and positive heart.

Throughout the way of growing up, except of parents, friends as an influential and tangible mirror that instill various spirits onto our life. On my teenage era, all of my friends were versatile person. They were wild about developing their interests such as performance, presentation, sports and so forth. In china, we teenagers had much pressure of passing exam to be enrolled into illustrious universities. It’s distinctive for us to do different things in that age. My friends cultivate me as an outgoing, aspirational and transparent person. Its wonderful memory always reminds me that how lucky I met those amazing friends. They are treasure in my life in a nutshell.

Still, a group of friends as a small society, it’s pure if you are innocent or insensible of some vague relationships. Yet, it can also hurt you and make you mature fast if you are sensitive of some trivial things. I remember that my friends were come from Middle Class, and they were good at getting high score. Being their friends suddenly differentiate me from a mediocre group to an outstanding group. I learned much from them, but I keep a habit of courteous because I was not a talent student, and I always felt sad about it. It complicated environment built one of my characters: Hardworking. Although sometimes I felt self-humiliation, they like a torch that indicates my way to success.

Time proves that our friendship is not as firm as we believed originally. We hardly connect with each other. Maybe this is life as what we said: Reality is cruel, and cruel is beautiful. My friends in U.S. said that we should make friends in the same environment, which we can have the same topics to discuss. Indeed, we should walk forward and remain past in reflection.

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